Failing to approach this student as long as he/she doesn't create a
disturbance.
• Trying to relate to this student as we do to other students. We can't do this
and win. If, for instance, make-up work is an absolute we just won't
disallow, many nonparticipators may try to catch up. However, most won't
be able to-and they'll quit. Denying them security, esteem, and selfactualization
will guarantee that they will quit because of their inability to
cope.
• Taking the attitude "If the student doesn't try, I won't try.